Have you ever tried using hair conditioner instead of shaving cream? I prefer conditioner even at home. I never get enough shaving cream for my legs, if I even get one that doesn't smell "manly", so I always just pack extra conditioner.
Huh! I have a beard and don't shave regularly but I sometimes want to on longer trips. I'm sort of a lightweight packer and resent taking even the travel-sized shaving creams for something I might use once but never found a more compact alternative that I liked. I will give conditioner a try.
I like all in one shampoo, I then use aftershave afterwords. If you'd like an after shave that doesn't smell super masculine, try gables lilac scented - its for sure a unisex scent.