This is an absurdly long marketing-string-along style read.
At its core, it is delivering a summary of "7 habits of highly effective people", by Stephen Covey, and packaging it as two mental shifts. The "two shifts" are what Covey refers to as "the private victory", and "the public victory", and they each comprise 3 of "the habits". They are the following:
1 - Be proactive
2 - Begin with the end in mind
3 - Put first things first
4 - Think win-win
5 - Seek first to understand, then to be understood
6 - Synergize
For the record, the seventh habit is to continually improve.
Most of the article's >3000 words are descriptions of why, how, where, and when people fail to follow these edicts, with some motivational phrases and quotes added throughout. There are also actually a few good tidbits buried in here about confidence and systems-thinking and locus of control, but it's mostly the usual melange of pop psychology vamping.
And some broad categorical statements about men and women's attitudes and abilities to boot.
Can someone explain to me why this is getting upvoted? It seems like obvious clickbait, the first shift is a platitude and the second one reads like corporate buzzwords strung together (synergy + 10x thinking). And at the end the author tries to sell you “training” on how to achieve a passive 6 figure income. I mean really?
I think this is the kind of article where you have to mentally translate the self-help jargon to see if there is anything valuable in it for yourself. It's not actually a worthless article, but all the talk of synergy etc is going to turn people off immediately.
I think most of the self-help is full of jargon and find what is valuable to you. I recently got a copy of Daniel Goleman's Emotional Intelligence and it is a long, laborious read with barely 1 page of actionable items.
At its core, it is delivering a summary of "7 habits of highly effective people", by Stephen Covey, and packaging it as two mental shifts. The "two shifts" are what Covey refers to as "the private victory", and "the public victory", and they each comprise 3 of "the habits". They are the following:
1 - Be proactive
2 - Begin with the end in mind
3 - Put first things first
4 - Think win-win
5 - Seek first to understand, then to be understood
6 - Synergize
For the record, the seventh habit is to continually improve.
Most of the article's >3000 words are descriptions of why, how, where, and when people fail to follow these edicts, with some motivational phrases and quotes added throughout. There are also actually a few good tidbits buried in here about confidence and systems-thinking and locus of control, but it's mostly the usual melange of pop psychology vamping.
And some broad categorical statements about men and women's attitudes and abilities to boot.