Try as well "Amorres Perros", "Jamon Jamon" (with Penelope Cruz!), and basically all of Almodóvar's movies. Well, maybe not "Mala education". For a more girly movie, "Lucia y el sexo" - not as girly as "The Notebook", and interesting and twisted in an unique Spanish way - definitely watch it with your girlfriend/boyfriend.
That's too bad, because you're missing out on "The Sea Inside" and "Y tu mamá también".
Interestingly enough, Netflix does pitch foreign movies at me regularly.